You’re probably here because you’ve lost someone close, or you’re about to. Or perhaps you’re thinking about options for your own funeral, when the time comes. I call myself a funeral guide. This means that I organise funerals in a similar way to a funeral director or undertaker, but I’m freelance and take care of every aspect myself. I offer a warm, highly personalised circle of support through the whole process, from arranging a natural burial or direct cremation to planning and holding a beautiful, bespoke celebration of life. I can also offer holistic end-of life-care, if appropriate.

You can be assured that I will guide you through the whole process with sensitivity, warmth and empathy. As a freelance funeral director, I will look after everything personally – you will only ever speak to me about the arrangements. You can read a little more about each of my services below. I know this is an overwhelming time, with lots to take in, so please feel free to contact me for a chat if that feels easier than reading.

I’m a freelance holistic funeral director.

I only take on a small number of funerals, so that I’m able to personally support families at every step. As a freelancer, I don’t have my own premises, instead working with a network of trusted providers, all established in the funeral industry. This means that I can offer a flexible service, and I will always be your point of contact. I’m especially interested in greener funerals, and can discuss options for natural burial, the most eco-friendly approach currently available In the UK. However, I recognise that natural burial isn’t possible or suitable for everyone, so I can also support with direct cremations. Whichever option you choose, I will walk you through each step of the process, explain what to expect along the way, and offer support to make a painful time a little easier.

I’m very supportive of family-led funerals.

Where loved are closely involved in the arrangements – but I recognise that this may feel overwhelming at such an emotional time. So I’ll give you as much or as little support as you want with any aspects. I’ll be by your side all the way.

I can work with you as celebrant to create a beautiful, bespoke ceremony or celebration.

I’ll work with you to create a truly fitting celebration of life for your loved one. I’m passionate about designing bespoke ceremonies that honour the uniqueness of the individual, involve guests closely, and draw on the healing power of nature. I can make suggestions for doing things a little differently, including ideas for beautiful nature-based rituals, which can bring a sense of the sacred to anyone and everyone in our secular society. A professional writer for most of my adult life, I can write and deliver a tribute that captures someone’s personality and life. Above all, I’ll support you to create the ceremony you want for your loved one. 

As a soul midwife (similar to a death doula)

I offer gentle, non-medical end-of-life support. This is personalised to each individual but may include simple rituals, guided meditations, work with sacred oils, and supporting funeral discussions with family members.